Relationships and the Law of Attraction

Recently I have been reflecting on my life and I couldn't help but think about all the people that have come through my life. Starting with the social groups in school, to my current life. Through learning the law of attraction I have begun to see that these people got there because this is what I attracted. To a wrong crowd of friends, toxic relationships and strange work colleagues. I had thought of this to be a bad experience with the people around me but actually, they were my teachers. These people have helped me get to the place and position I am in today. 

So when your boss gives you a hard time, just remember that they have been put there for a reason in your journey. Simply smiling at them or showing some form of gratitude will shift your day in a better and healthier way. Being the optimistic one is very contagious and you will see others around you with a better vibe too. TRY IT. 

When I was in a toxic relationship I would constantly be thinking about the situation that I was in and how much I despised being in it. The situation was only getting worse, they would go behind my back and hurt me in other new ways. By dwelling on the situation and thinking about how much I hated it was only telling the universe that I wanted more of these things I hated in my relationship. 

In the end, I thought about all the small things that made me feel grateful for this person but also about the other people in my life. I started visualising what I wanted in a relationship but I realised it wasn't with my partner at the time. 
I noticed that I and my partner at the time were back on better terms but we both agreed that we make better friends than being in a relationship together. 

Months later I found love that matched the one I had visualised months before. This proves that we can make something good out of something that seems bad at the time. It is the power of the mind and how we shape it that can help us to move forward and to grow.

What can I do to attract the right people into my life?

It all comes down to how we manage our minds through thought and perception. Whatever thought that we have, sends out a frequency. The universe will then send out another frequency that will have to match the one that you have just sent out.

Nothing can come into your reality unless you create it through persistent thoughts. So everyone has been attracted to our reality through these thoughts. To attract the right people in your life or to mend a relationship you currently have is to get a clear picture of how you want to see the relationship. 

The methods

There are many ways in which you get a clear picture of what it is that you want. First, I recommend that you meditate. This will clear your mind through the practice of breathing. Ask yourself what it is that you would like to see in a relationship or how you would like your current relationship to change. Other thoughts may come in, allow whatever thoughts do come in and let them simply pass by.

The other thoughts will have no power over you unless you make them dominant. Keep reminding yourself that you DESERVE this! You will begin to visualise the qualities and other scenarios of what this partnership will bring into your life. FEEL IT like it is already happening! Practice this as many times as you like throughout your day.

Vision boards have proven to be effective by putting the law of attraction into people's lives. You can make one on just the ideal partner. 

Placing pictures or quotes on this vision board of what would resemble your partner will give you a clear picture of what it is that you seek. You will then start to believe in this person that you have built up. Being on this frequency... the law must abide by and match it up. Just make sure that it is somewhere that you can see every day... preferably when you wake up. 

If you don't have anywhere to place your vision board then I recommend doing some journaling. Pretty much the same as doing a vision board, the only difference is the fact that you can carry it around with you. For the first few pages, you can put on some of the things that you would like to see in your life, a list of what you can manifest. I would personally title these pages "My life catalogue" as these are the orders that you are going to place with the universe.

I like to carry a journal with me from time to time. It is nice to look back at some of your notes and reflect on everything that you have achieved. Write up some affirmations on each page that you are about to start on. These are just the simple things that you can do that will change how you look at your days. Maybe just make it into a simple gratitude book and write a list of things that you are grateful for each day. It is so IMPORTANT that you feel what it is that you are writing. So when you say that you are grateful for your family... sit back and think about all the reasons why you are grateful for them. Feel it!.

These are all just tools to make your understanding of your life and the people around you to be more positive. But it is up to you to make that change. If you have an argument with your partner, use these tools... think about all the reasons why you love them. 

Even if you are single, imagine your life like you have the person of your dreams and feel what it would be like, think about all the small details that you would want in your relationship. Create your journal, and your vision board and meditate on it. You will see the universe working in unison with you and what you create in your mind. 

It is not just relationships, you can bring this into every aspect of your life that you would want to see a difference in. It is how you work with your mind. Your mind controls the next step that you make. So being aware of what you are thinking, you can make sure that you can change it into something you would like and not what you don't. Your emotions will change when you get into this stage. But it is up to you...